It is no secret that Vice President Dick Cheney’s daughter, Mary, is a lesbian, and she is pregnant.

This has caused certain "evangelicals" to criticize Mary’s lifestyle and that she is going to raise a child in a non-traditional "mom and dad" home. Even TV reporters have questioned the Vice President about this. He rightfully told the reporter that he was stepping over a line.

The church should always oppose homosexuality because God’s Word says so. This is not done because we hate, but because the God of love who created us tells us to. It is not hateful for the church to say that something opposes God. It is loving. We don’t want our brothers and sisters to live lives of sin. That is why we cannot water down our teachings or lessen our hold on the Word of God.

But what this topic boils down to is sin. The church is supposed to oppose sin, not matter the form. The church doesn’t promote pre-marital sex. We preach that it is wrong. Why? God’s Word tells us that sex between partners is only supposed to be between a wife and husband. Any kind of sex between a boyfriend and girlfriend is wrong. Sex between non-married partners of any age is wrong. And the church can’t change this teaching. However, we don’t throw couples out of the church who are having sex before marriage. We teach the importance of God’s Word and the importance of understanding of fighting our internal mechanism that causes us to sin. And when we fail, the church says, we sinners go to our God and repent and ask for forgiveness.

When we Christians oppose a particular lifestyle or action of our fellow sinners, we don’t oppose it because we hate. On the contrary, our opposition is one of love. God’s Word provides a blessed explanation of what sinfulness is. And as we read the Word, we find that all of us are sinners and are in need of a savior. We are to cling to the cross of Christ and ask our Lord for the forgiveness that Jesus won for humanity through His blessed life, death, resurrection, and ascension.

As Christians, one of the things that we aren’t supposed to do is stand in judgment of others. When Christian leaders go on TV or speak to reporters about Mary Cheney and her pregnancy and then be critical of her, they have lost sight of a most important aspect of our lives as Christians – we are to love our neighbor as ourselves. Or we are to love our neighbor as our Lord Jesus loved us when He humbled Himself to come to earth to die for our sins. Our Lord didn’t just come to die for the sins of those righteous, church-going, Bible-thumpers — He came to die for all the sins of the world, including the sin of homosexuality and sin of sex outside of marriage. Christian leaders, while being firm against sin, cannot attack the sinner. We are to reject the sin, but love the sinner.

How about this – today in your prayers, say a prayer for Mary and her unborn child. Ask our Father in heaven to guard and protect mother and child during the months of pregnancy. Most especially we should pray that when Mary’s child is born, she is led to the waters of Holy Baptism.

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